Competitive or Creative Mind

When you have something you want and there is an obstacle before you, your brain works rapidly to seek for a solution.  There must be more than one idea computed by your brain.  It is very important for you to decide which way you are going because the solution should be somewhat "friendly" to everyone involved, not solely to you and people around you.  When you just focus on winning what you want and do not care about others or its consequences, you will be treated as you do eventually.  You must think as flexible as possible to come up with the best possible solution for the planet.